Remembrances

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Mark Bidwell
Friend and Business Associate
I met Michael through Rio Grande Title Company. Our family owned and ran the agency. From the first time we met, I was a title searcher then, Michael was friendly and genuinely interested in me and we became friends. Throughout our careers we interacted regularly through civic organizations and business. Later we both served on the St. Joseph hospital foundation board. He was always willing and able to help anyone or anything he was involved with. His abilities made him a highly sought after participant in business and community engagement. A kind gentle professional in all aspects of his life. He will be greatly missed.

Lowell Hare
Friend, Business Associate, Fishing & Hunting
Mike was a special friend for more than 20 years. What started as a business relationship with him securing real estate loans for several of my businesses quickly turned into a personal relationship. He attended many of the Hare & Hounds hunting trips in Colorado, Georgia and Kansas. We also played golf together at my Clubs in Albuquerque and Denver. We shared many great dinners together many of which he hosted at his home. I will miss Mike greatly but have so many great memories of our times together. My condolences to all of Mike’s family and friends .

Robert Gherardi
Friend, Fishing & Hunting
I met Michael thru our mutual best friend, Mark Yarbrough. Many fishing trips to UUBar, and Vermejo were shared and a friendship developed. As the younger member of the group I was always in awe of the things Mike accomplished and the kindness he showed to everyone. I think my favorite memories were of the times we shared at Atmore Ranch, near Ute Park , NM. Mike, Mark, Dave Hillson , David Moore and Jim Fanning would rent the ranch for the turkey season. We had 1200 acres to hunt and then fish the private ponds stocked with trophy trout. One trip Michael and I were hunting together, and we were tracking this Tom turkey all over one of the valleys. We just could never get close enough to get a shot at him. He flew down into an arroyo beyond our sight. As Mike and I came over the crest of the arroyo Mike warned me that the turkey was just over the ridge. As we crested the ridge the turkey took off and was flying over the arroyo, just in front of us. I took a crazy shot, not really getting to aim, and amazingly to Mike and I, I hit the turkey square in the head and dropped him right there. All that day, and the rest of the trip Mike kept commenting on how great of a shot that was.. I didn't ever tell him it was pure luck! I enjoyed getting the positive vibes from him. I always admired him and knew him as a great friend I could call if I ever had a question about finance. I will miss him and his great laugh!

Emily (Yarbrough), Tom, Matthew & Kate Smith
Friends
We send our deepest condolences to you all, family and friends alike, as you mourn the loss of Mike. Mike was a larger than life, deeply generous and kind, and lifelong friend to our family, especially my parents, Mark and Kathy Yarbrough. We are so sorry for your loss and are sending our prayers for comfort and peace as you remember Mike. With love.

Angelo Brunacini
Business, Cycling, Fishing/Hunting, Friend
I met Mike while studying real estate and finance at Arizona State University. I spent the summer before my senior year working as an unpaid intern for him at Realty Mortgage & Investment Company. This was the beginning of a lifelong friendship, business relationship and mentorship. In business, i learned many valuable lessons from Mike but two stand out; his unwavering tenacity and his attention to details.

Through the years we went on many hunting and fishing trips. One trip that I cherish more than the others was a multi-day float trip down the Gunnison River in Colorado. My son George, Mike’s son Robert and my father-in-law were on this trip The fishing was terrible, but the time and memories were unforgettable. My relationship with Mike was invaluable and he will be missed, but I’ll be telling “Mike Kelly” stories forever.

Channing Kelly
Daughter
Thought I would share a couple of my favorite photos of my dad. There will surely be more to come, but here are a couple that are fun.

Charles Price
Business, Cycling, Friend
I have known Mike since the early 80s, when I was representing lenders on commercial loans originated by Realty Mortgage. Mike was great to work with - exacting, diligent, problem solving, practical, and always upbeat. After Kate and I got married in 2003, we would have dinner with Mike and Jane, and then Mike and Susan - Mike loved to cook, loved a good steak and great wine, and dinner with friends. Attached are a couple of photos from dinners at our house in 2008 and 2010. We miss Mike!

John & Cindy Mechenbier
Business
Michael; A good heart and a good soul. A lot of good memories of water skiing, biking, dining and enjoying life. He brought a smile onto everyone’s life that he touched. He always had a kind word to offer and share. 

Alan C. Rose
Business, Fishing/Hunting, Friend
I first met Mike in 1978, I think, when I was working as a paid intern for Touche Ross Accountants in their audit department. At that time they were providing the audit of the original Realty Mortgage and Investment Company for the purchase of that company by Mike Kelly. I was just a flunkie doing what the primary auditors asked of me. For the month I was there, part time, Mike was always interested in what I was thinking and doing for my future after college. I had the luxury of being able to talk to a very experienced business person at any time. The advice I received from Mike was extremely valuable. Approximately 5 years later as I was in the last semester of my Graduate studies in Economics, I contacted Mike at RMIC and asked if he had time to meet with me to get some more guidance from him for my business future. He was so generous with his time and I felt he was truly interested in my future. About two weeks later I received a hand written letter in the mail by Mike were he offered me a full time job as a Commercial Mortgage Banker trainee at $12,000 per year with bonuses. I was over the moon surprised. Many years later Mike approached me about merging my company with another Mortgage company were he and I would run the Commercial side of the company. Subsequently, a year later Mike decided to re-incorperate the RMIC name and he and I went out on our own. I will always remember Mike as a caring and compassionate person. Mike Kelly gave me my start in the Mortgage business which I have been in for 40 years. God speed Mike.

James Martin Murphy
Business
I will miss Mike. He was a great friend and business partner. Mike knew how to put on a party. The Q10 Capital crowd often gave Mike an unlimited budget to plan business meetings and he always exceeded the budget. Mike was always positive about life and generous to a fault. One of my favorite memories about Mike was walking through the lobby of the St. Francis hotel. He stopped every service person in the lobby and had me tip them. I didn't walk through another lobby with him in the 30+ years I knew him. Mike, I'll pray for your soul and will miss hearing your voice!

Bob Stout
Business, Friend
Mike and I first met over 30 years ago when I was selling loan servicing software and Realty Mortgage became a client. His personality was truly larger than life. Years later Mike was one of the partners and board members who hired me as CEO of Q10 Capital. He was always the best dressed at our many board meetings, golf outings and dinners! Over the years we developed a deep friendship often spending hours at dinners talking about life and family. His generosity was abundant. When he found out I was involved with a non profit doing orphan advocacy work in China he was one of my most generous partners. I’ll miss his positive spirit and warm smile most of all

John and Melissa Ceriale
Friend
Mike Kelly was a fixture in our lives for a long, long time! It was wonderful to know this man, to know Ida and to watch Robert & Channing grow up. We brought Jane into his life along with their "children" Reggie & Lily! There were good times and struggles but, in the end, all of our lives have been enriched by the entire Kelly Clan. We love you all, dearly.

Henry J. Schwendiman
Business, Friend
Mike Kelly was one of my heroes! I considered him a friend. He always brought a smile to my face in business meetings or any other interaction. He will be deeply missed, but I know we will meet again some day.

Jane Dillon
Family
Michael and I lived fifteen years together in New Mexico and Connecticut. He introduced me to his lovely family, fine friends, and talented colleagues. I had a rich, absorbing, and challenging life with Michael. I learned generosity, adaptability and tenacity.

Together we renovated and shared two beautiful homes in the Albuquerque Country Club neighborhood. Michael had great taste and a great enthusiasm in undertaking projects in the home and the garden. He was the perfect partner/client for a designer, builder, or landscaper. He was a generous, proud, and hospitable man. He lived a big life. My love to all the Kellys.

Channing Kelly
Daughter
A great newspaper article about Michael and his lofty goals for Realty Mortgage & Investment Company. Circa 1977.

G. Mark Yarbrough
Church, Family, Friend, Fishing/Hunting
I (we) first met Mike and Ida in 1975--wow 50 years ago--at A Childs Garden (part of First Presbyterian Church where our kids started preschool.) Their children and ours were friends; hence the four of us became friends. Fast forward to 2025, the four of us are still friends; however, what occurred between is a lifetime story. I'll offer some thoughts. Mike was a "best" friend, and he felt much like a brother I didn't have. The first real bonding came in 1977 when four men (all with children in Childs Garden) went to our cabin in Sapello, New Mexico deer hunting. I knew then Mike was the ultimate professional, because who else would go deer hunting in a starched button-down white shirt and Italian loafers. This sartorial pattern was repeated regularly throughout our hunting and fishing trips, and our friendship.

Mike knew nothing but the very best would do in any endeavor--he was truly the most generous human I ever knew. His contributions to many charities local and national in "time and talent" were legendary.

Like a brother, he could be a royal pain in the butt. Episodes of showing up unannounced (and uninvited) happened occasionally. He once was invited to come over to cook a steak dinner. Well, he purchased and brought a "new in the box" Weber grill on which to cook our steak! We put it together and the Yarbrough's cooked on it for at least two decades and we still have it.

There was always the annual spring turkey hunt we both fondly anticipated and I'll be hunting in two weeks without Michael. Once, four of us went to our cabin for turkeys and by the grace of God survived the night. An unventilated butane heater was started, it was late, and we had a wee dram of single malt, and went to bed. We didn't know the winter snow had bent the vent pipe over. Morning came--we all were nauseated, had a killer headache, disoriented , had beet red fingernail beds, and had experienced a near fatal dose of carbon monoxide poisoning. The 500 gallon butane tank ran out of gas!

We had a final fishing trip down the Gunnison River, and Mike Kelly landed two nice brown trout virtually without help. I was very proud of him.

We live our lives looking forward, and judge them looking backward, and my opinions is that Mike's was a full and productive life. We always ended our conversations saying "I love you", and Mike, I still do.

Kathy Yarbrough
Friend
Mike was part of Mark's and my lives for almost fifty years. We shared meals, trips, family adventures and celebrations, and life's ups and downs. Mike taught me an important lesson. He never parted from Mark and me without telling us that he loved us. So, in memory of Mike, be sure to tell your friends how important they are to you.

Polly Castillo
Friend, Family
I started my relationship with Ida and Mike as their housekeeper then started watching Leigh (as she was known to me many years ago) and Robert. As years went by I became more like family. It was quite an adventure. (If you knew Mike!) Working for Mike not just as a housekeeper but soon became one who packed and unpacked his every move from one house to another at one point all the way to Connecticut! Mike was ready to share his wisdom and value of life with me in which I treasure greatly. You will be missed and thought of always, Michael Kelly! My love and prayers to the Kelly family.

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